{"id":3906,"date":"2023-02-18T19:36:10","date_gmt":"2023-02-18T19:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghostcoast.video\/?p=3906"},"modified":"2024-05-23T14:05:55","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T18:05:55","slug":"dont-fall-in-love-with-your-products","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ghostcoast.video\/blog\/dont-fall-in-love-with-your-products\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Fall In Love With Your Products"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"notion-header page\">\n<div class=\"notion-header__content has-cover has-icon max-width\">\n<div class=\"notion-header__title-wrapper\">\n<h1 class=\"notion-header__title\"><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Saw Rogue One the other day!<\/span><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"super-content max-width\">\n<article id=\"block-newsletter-posts-some-of-yall-are-too-excited-about-your-products\" class=\"notion-root\">\n<div id=\"block-9be9319e7cc445fe920d6975d8a77a45\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">Anyway, without writing a huge essay on this movie\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-ad17a485a02f40459a9255fd24e6dc56\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">It\u2019s a story with a lot of big dramatic moments and emotional high notes. People die heroically, there are miracle escapes, mad dashes, passionate speeches about freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-e8fea5ab260f4457ae77a8c0da25ea98\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">While this is a really well shot sci-fi war movie thing, all of those emotional moments don\u2019t really work. They\u2019re very sad but you don\u2019t care about the people it\u2019s happening to. LIke, you don\u2019t care about them in a deep sense as characters, and you also don\u2019t care for them in the dirty dozen or expendables sense of them being badass and cool.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-e9dd616d8e88485bbf68e2266622877d\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">You barely even remember their names by the end of the movie.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-a7408dfdb11345ff851857d7405094ff\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">I mean, if you can imagine the guys from Guardians of the Galaxy dying like the characters in this movie. Or Groot and Rocket getting blown up like uh\u2026 Donnie Yen and the other guy that isn\u2019t Donnie Yen.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-302e6f4cfa954a0784a8515d3694e829\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">Or Paul Walker, riddled full of bullets, calmly telling Michelle Rodriguez she needs to climb some stairs or whatever and then calmly saying \u201cgoodbye\u201d and falling flat onto a control panel.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-f9bd0eba071d443b8d598147018c8272\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">TRAGEDY, right? You feel sad even imagining it.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2 id=\"block-eef576342b9a4cfab2850b065835fe54\" class=\"notion-heading\"><span id=\"eef576342b9a4cfab2850b065835fe54\" class=\"notion-heading__anchor\"><\/span><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\"><strong>Are People \u201cRolling\u201d With Your Work?<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"block-f786790604b64cd2be3be15efafeeda9\" class=\"notion-image page-width\"><picture><source srcset=\"https:\/\/super-static-assets.s3.amazonaws.com\/10c18fe4-fb17-42e6-9ca4-e50c71208c2b\/images\/1296fa6d-4b39-44a7-a598-7864ffb3064c.jpg?w=750&amp;f=webp\" type=\"image\/webp\" media=\"(max-width: 546px)\" \/><source src=\"https:\/\/super-static-assets.s3.amazonaws.com\/10c18fe4-fb17-42e6-9ca4-e50c71208c2b\/images\/1296fa6d-4b39-44a7-a598-7864ffb3064c.jpg?w=750\" media=\"(max-width: 546px)\" \/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/super-static-assets.s3.amazonaws.com\/10c18fe4-fb17-42e6-9ca4-e50c71208c2b\/images\/1296fa6d-4b39-44a7-a598-7864ffb3064c.jpg?w=1500&amp;f=webp\" type=\"image\/webp\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/super-static-assets.s3.amazonaws.com\/10c18fe4-fb17-42e6-9ca4-e50c71208c2b\/images\/1296fa6d-4b39-44a7-a598-7864ffb3064c.jpg?w=1500\" alt=\"image\" width=\"1500\" \/><\/picture><\/div>\n<div id=\"block-eb8283c4c2104a3abc54167578cb53e1\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">One of my pet theories on ensemble films is \u2013 the general test should be whether you, personally, would like to hang out with the ensemble. Even if a movie is ridiculous (think Fast and the Furious), it still works because you want to roll with those guys.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-5fec6c8142ab42728fc8c705b3ef6601\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">If you\u2019re hanging out at home and Vin Diesel sends you a text. \u201cHEY YO IT\u2019S VIN PULL UP\u201d you\u2019re going outside. You might not even get dressed!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-2de6d36680c54be396404ef7f0f61816\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">They\u2019re interesting people and you want to hang out with them. Same with the Guardians of the Galaxy or Mission Impossible or the guys from the original trilogy. The Magnificent Seven, whatever. They\u2019re good at their jobs, you have an idea of what they\u2019re like and what they want.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h2 id=\"block-b4a957e5aa9c42939be0a6b1ae363f6a\" class=\"notion-heading\"><span id=\"b4a957e5aa9c42939be0a6b1ae363f6a\" class=\"notion-heading__anchor\"><\/span><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\"><strong>Lots of People Organize Copy Around These Big Stirring Moments\u2026<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<div id=\"block-033098d0df5a4bc48a6f3021421bc73b\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">Big, flashy stunts that scream for attention. Basically the literary equivalent to slamming two star destroyers together like a kid playing with his toys. This is something you really have to look out for if you\u2019re a newer copywriter, because the shouty bits can often be the part that feels \u201cdifferent\u201d from normal persuasive writing.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-92630353cc7e47bf8620800b257a006d\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">So you have hit a lot of the \u201cspirit\u201d of good sales material but you come off as a parody. There are too many cliches. You have to hit the notes between the notes.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-fe5d90d235fe4ca1b716319ccabce33c\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">There\u2019s nothing wrong with having shouty moments in your copy. But realize that having SUPERCHARGED COPY THAT SIZZLES AND SPEWS CASH MONEY can fall flat if you haven\u2019t build the right foundation:<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-fad5e7ab7bf94eb0b7b82d79b4148452\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\"><strong>From your story.\u00a0<\/strong>They want to hear about the ideas and the purpose you share with potential customers. They want to know WHY you\u2019re doing what you\u2019re doing. If you\u2019re just giving \u201cgood information\u201d\u2026 that\u2019s like being Not Donnie Yen and running around with a machine gun on your back. You might technically be good at your job, but you\u2019re not memorable. What\u2019s your identity and what are your beliefs? DON\u2019T think that you can just say it once and walk away from it either. It\u2019s better to be repetitive and REMEMBERED than subtle and forgotten.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-2d9a0f99042a461faff17b396bf89c5c\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">Because people don\u2019t just want to read a bunch of adjectives tossed together, they want to hear your story, the ideas and purpose that you share with your potential customers. They want to know that you\u2019re a leader who has been in that situation and knows how to move them onwards and upwards.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-faca07c4606045aa80e5a9fdf6366f69\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\"><strong>From your priorities.\u00a0<\/strong>What is it you want? I should be able to guess what those desires are from listening to you speak, or just taking a look at your website. In the same way that we can make guesses about people based on their looks, their clothes, their makeup \u2013 well, the same applies to a web presence.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-c46a0d1f896245ac9bd3eb61182ba04e\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\"><strong>From your personality.\u00a0<\/strong>More than anything else your prospects want authenticity. If you can imagine sending an email out to a mailing list filled with dog lovers. They talk about dog breeds, dog tricks, dog shows, and all kinds of dog accessories. If you send them an email about cats, you can expect to get a lot of silence in return. That something called congruence \u2013 giving people what they expect. The same applies to our emotional tone. If your average copy throughout the rest of your sales funnel is normal, relaxed and laid-back, and suddenly you have really gimmicky copy when it comes time for the sale you can expect people to be turned off.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-5fd27ba2cbdd4c7bbed59c1d5a297846\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\"><strong>From your point of view.<\/strong>\u00a0Don\u2019t just hit publish on your first \u201cgood sounding\u201d idea. What happens often is that first good idea is just a cliche. You need to dig deeper into that spiderweb of ideas. Ask yourself why, then ask yourself why again. The deeper you go, the more profound you get.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-103edc4dcd9b49ff9405a6dd503ff5da\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">Even with a strong and aggressive sales pitch, you need to take your time. You can\u2019t just jump into what a great deal it is, the big name boss that\u2019s endorsed you, your triple your money back guarantee. All of that is important and will get people scrambling for their wallets, but you need to find time to do the hard work of establishing the pain of the customer, your expertise and experience as an instructor, what your solution is and how it works.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"block-6993a9c2519f47dda2d7b91821e616d3\" class=\"notion-text\">\n<p class=\"notion-text__content\"><span class=\"notion-semantic-string\">That\u2019s the character stuff that pulls the customer in and makes the flashy action relevant.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Saw Rogue One the other day! 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